It’s not just in your head — there are real psychological, emotional, and biological reasons why women often feel deeply connected to a man after sex. Here’s the breakdown: 🧠 1. Hormones Hit Differently During and after sex, women release high levels of oxytocin — the “bonding hormone.” It increases trust, emotional closeness, and the desire to stay connected. Meanwhile, men release more dopamine, which is about reward and satisfaction — not always emotional attachment. 🫂 2. Sex Feels Like Intimacy, Not Just a Physical Act For many women, sex is tied to emotional vulnerability. Letting someone that close often…
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By ENITAN ABEL JOHNGOLD ORHERUATA, mnipr The Delta State Government has called on eligible indigenes of the state to take advantage of the Nigerian Air Force (NAF) Direct Short Service Commission (DSSC) 34/2025 enlistment exercise, describing it as a golden opportunity for graduates and professionals to serve the nation while advancing their careers. According to a government announcement issued through the Bureau for Orientation and Communications, the online application process will run from August 27 to October 7, 2025 via the official portal: www.nafrecruitment.airforce.mil.ng. The DSSC scheme provides an avenue for qualified Nigerian graduates and post-graduates—male and female—to enlist as…
By ENITAN ABEL JOHNGOLD ORHERUATA, mnipr The University of Benin Alumni Association has appealed to the Federal Government to take swift and decisive action on key national issues affecting education, infrastructure, and security. Rising from its 102nd Council Meeting held on Saturday, August 30, 2025, in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State, the Association warned that failure to resolve lingering disputes with the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) could trigger another round of strikes in tertiary institutions, with devastating consequences for students and Nigeria’s human capital development. In a communique issued at the end of the meeting, the alumni body also urged…
Igbanke community in Edo state has again affirmed desire to be part of the proposed Anioma state and noted that the decision was based on their lawful and constitutional rights. The position of Igbanke people was made known in an open letter by a forum of Igbanke sons and daughters called Akiko Uwa Social Cultural Initiative of Igbanke, addressed to the speaker, House of Representatives, rejecting a petition written by a group, Aiguobasinmwin Movement (AM) against Senator Ned Nwoko on the Anioma state agitation. In the letter dated 2nd September 2025, released on behalf of the Igbanke community, the…
By ENITAN ABEL JOHNGOLD ORHERUATA, mnipr The Asagba of Asaba, His Royal Majesty, Prof. Epiphany Chigbogu Azinge, has described the University of Lagos (UNILAG) as Nigeria’s foremost institution of higher learning, declaring that its graduates carry an enduring emblem of excellence and distinction. The revered monarch made the declaration when he received members of the University of Lagos Alumni Association, Asaba Chapter, at his palace in the Delta State capital. “We have imbibed and internalized values in the course of our journey. Let the world see the worth of our training. Let the world proclaim that yes, going to UNILAG…
By ENITAN ABEL JOHNGOLD ORHERUATA, mnipr The National Orientation Agency (NOA) campaign in Oshimili South Local Government Area of Delta State took a dramatic turn at Cable Point, Asaba, as residents openly accused some police and NDLEA operatives of colluding with criminals and frustrating community safety efforts. The sensitisation drive, led by NOA Deputy Director from Abuja Headquarters, Mr. Saturday Oriasotie, alongside the Chief Orientation and Mobilization Officer for Oshimili South, Deaconess Christy Kunu, and her assistant, Comrade Abel Johngold Orheruata, MNIPR, was aimed at educating citizens on government initiatives such as the Nigeria Education Loan Fund (NELFUND), Conditional Cash…
By Shulamite Owhoekevbo The Delta State Head of Service, Dr. (Mrs.) Mininim Oseji, has paid glowing tribute to the Permanent Secretary in the Directorate of Culture and Tourism, Mrs. Angalaere Arthur Prest-Umukoro, who has retired after 34 years of meritorious service, describing her exit as both inspiring and triumphant. Mrs. Prest-Umukoro, who visited the Head of Service to formally announce her retirement, expressed deep gratitude for the support and encouragement she received during her career, especially in her trying moments. She thanked God for the grace to conclude her journey in the civil service in good health, despite earlier health…
Senator Ned Nwoko has urged the Nigerian media to move beyond routine reportage and take a bold, decisive role in confronting corruption, which he described as a grave threat to democracy and good governance in the country. Nwoko, represented by his Communication Director, Gloria Okolugbo, gave the charge at the 12th Annual Conference and Annual General Meeting of the Association of Communication Scholars and Professionals of Nigeria (ACSPN), held at MBB Events, Effurun, Delta State. The conference, with theme “Corruption, Governance and Media in Nigeria”, brought together communication scholars and professionals from academia and the media industry. “The media has…
The management of Tantita Security Services Limited has called on the Association of Communication Scholars and Professionals of Nigeria (ACSPN) to use its intellectual and professional strength to support the ongoing war against oil vandalism and crude theft in the country. Speaking at the 12th Annual Conference and Annual General Meeting of ACSPN, held September 3–4, 2025, at MBB Events, Effurun, Delta State, with the theme “Corruption, Governance and Media in Nigeria”, Capt. Waredi Enisuoh, Executive Director, Operations and Technical, Tantita Security Services Nigeria Limited, noted that oil theft remains one of the most devastating forms of corruption, undermining governance,…
What You Didn’t Know That Happened When President Lula of Brazil met Prof. Wole Soyinka Brasilia, August 2025: President Lula da Silva and Professor Wole Soyinka in an iconic embrace of touching of heads to symbolize sharing of grace, wisdom and solidarity. At the State Lunch in Brasília in honor of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu during his State visit to the South American country, the Nigerian Presdient rose from his chair, offering his presidential seat to the 91-year-old Nobel Laureate, Wole Soyinka. “Egbon, e wa joko si ibiyi” Elder bro, please come and sit here. The hall fell silent. A…